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@MichaelHow awful to have neighbours from hell. Glad they've moved on and you and your wife (and Felicity😸) have peace again. Of course I agree that domestic violence should be taken very seriously and the punishments should be very harsh.I've been thinking about the Boris incident and really don't think this was a case of domestic abuse. This is what I imagine happened. Females, when arguing tend to be quite excitable, sometimes irrational, and usually very screechy. Fact. If alcohol is involved the verbal output increases and the decibels get louder. Fact. Men when 3 sheets to the wind tend to get very loud.  Fact. When men and women get hammered together the situation can be combustible. Fact.We don't know what happened that night but let's use our imagination. Picture a scene. Boris and Carrie are both tired at the back end of a long stressful week. They settle down for a relaxing drink and something to eat. Carrie produces some vegan monstrosity, but secretly Boris really wants steak and chips. He gets a bit niggly with disappointment, and she gets narked that he isn't being appreciative of her vegan offering. More red wine is consumed and the sofa gets it, probably not intentionally, but Carrie goes ballistic. In the tape (allegedly) Carrie was  remonstrating to Boris that nothing matters to him, and is also shouting 'get off me'. Okay that sounds bad, but perhaps Boris was trying to put his arm around her to calm her down and apologise for spoiling her sofa, but she was having none of it. Boris at some point (allegedly) shouts 'leave my f****** laptop alone' and a loud crash is heard. Perhaps Carrie threw it on the floor in temper or even at Boris?  Perhaps for good measure she lobbed a few plates his way too? Who knows? Nobody knows. Fact.Police arrive. Neither Boris or Carrie are harmed and no charges are sought by either of them. Nothing more to see here so police leave. Upshot. Leftie neighbours have achieved their 15 minutes of fame and got their smug mugs in the papers. Fellow lefties, feminists and Bojo haters hail them as heroes. Other people without an agenda just call them nosy opportunist  b******s and get on with their lives, which includes the occasional row with their partner.The end.

Sue Hammond ● 2698d

From LBC yesterday:-"James O'Brien gave an explanation of Boris Johnson's dead cat theory - showing why he would rather talk about painting buses than Brexit or the row with his girlfriend.Nick Ferrari got headlines around the UK yesterday for asking Mr Johnson 26 times whether the picture of him apparently having made up with Carrie Symonds was a recent photo.But also getting attention was another interview the former Foreign Secretary did in which he said he relaxed by turning wine boxes into buses.That made James think of something Mr Johnson said in 2013 about what you should do if you're losing an argument.Mr Johnson said: ""Let us suppose you are losing an argument. The facts are overwhelmingly against you and the more people focus on the reality the worse it is for you and your case."Your best bet in these circumstances is to perform a manoeuvre that a great campaigner describes as 'throwing a dead cat on the table mate'."That is because there is one thing that is absolutely certain about throwing a dead cat on the dining room table and I don't mean that people will be outraged, alarmed, disgusted. That is true, but irrelevant. The key point says my Australian friend is that everyone will shout 'Jeez mate, there's a dead cat on the table.'"In other words, they will be talking about the dead cat, the thing you want them to talk about and they will not be talking about the issue that has been causing you so much grief.""https://www.lbc.co.uk/radio/presenters/james-obrien/james-obrien-boris-johnson-dead-cat-theory/All about winning. At any cost.

David Ainsworth ● 2694d

"In this case 2 grown adults in a relationship have a loud row". - Martine GuyIn which, just as might happen in Eastenders, glasses and crockery are thrown around and the woman asks the man to 'get off her'.Of course this might be par for the course in Ms Guy's household and perhaps Ms Hammond's in her married years - "So what? I had plenty with my ex".But not, I would suggest, for most of us.And of course the issue is important and not just 'personal' because man in question is likely, thanks to the tacit support and defence if not the votes of these two ladies, to become our Prime Minister.In the past, whatever the policy differences, one would look at Conservative leaders and admit they were gentlemen or ladies with a certain gravitas and maturity and a shared common decency based upon British values of behaviour. The Cof E used to be described as 'the Conservative Party at prayer', meant to mean I think that the Party at least aspired to certain high moral standards.Now we will get Johnson.Do Ms Guy and Ms Hammond and others that support him really look at this man with any admiration for how he deports himself ?Why do they defend him ?He is a man of buffoonish demeanor, with a proven record of dishonesty and appalling social behaviour.This particularly applies to his treatment of women (see above) especially his wife and the various mistresses he has impregnated.  If his supporters came across a relative, friend, neighbour or colleague with a similar history of such behaviour would they be similarly enamoured or say what a 'nasty piece of work' and shun them ?Do they think his behaviour admirable ?Do they think he is a fine example of British manhood ?Do they think he is a befitting representative of Britain and what we stand for ?Heaven help them and us if they do.

John Hawkes ● 2692d

I have not looked at the Forum for some weeks but when I did I found that there are still some contributors for whom child like invective is supposed to impress us as reasoned, convivial discussion and argument.Plus ca change as they say in parts of that nasty old EU!My latest post was nothing to do with Brexit Ms Hammond but about the subject of the thread namely Boris Johnson and his behaviour.Perhaps you did not read what I said for you certainly responded very quickly.I have no problem with the fact that the Referendum resulted in a desire of the British people by a very small majority to leave the EU.And so we should under the best terms possible and terms that do us minimum harm.If the best we can achieve is a 'No deal' Brexit then so be it.Those that seek this will get what they want and those that want a different version or even Remain will have to put up with it.I am quite sanguine to be honest because I think that I personally and my family are sufficiently well provided for and also our circumstances will make us quite resilient should even the worse forecasts prove to be correct.I hope you and yours are too.Bit worried about those workers in the car industry though and our farmers if things don't go as Johnson promises.And so back to the great man himself.You have not answered the key point of my post.Do you admire him and would you find his attitudes, beliefs and behaviour acceptable and admirable in a relative, friend, neighbour or colleague or anyone not running to be PM ?

John Hawkes ● 2692d